I met a lovely woman named Holley during our recent trip to Utah. She was especially lovely because she was helping me improve my very modest ability to ski. I asked for a very patient instructor. She was patient, and wonderfully enthusiastic. She moved my brain past the "death wedge" to a new place! I have been blessed to have worked with two other amazing instructors, and so I had a solid foundation, but Holley helped me take a huge leap -- of faith, of not taking my fear so seriously, and of allowing myself to get out of my own way. Something altered in the way that I moved, and I could feel lots of small pieces of experience and information synthesize. I am grateful for her assistance and sense of humor! And, for her use of the word "surrender."
I have been reading a book called Three Feet from Gold (Gred Reid and Sharon Lechter). It has some great pieces of advice, one of which is Stop Overplanning. When I look at the progress I've made there is no reason to believe I won't be successful as I continue on. Boy, is that hard to believe as I attempt to take the next step. It sees silly but I think I have to learn to surrender to success.
So, I revisit that feeling of things synthesizing. That is something I'd like to help others to feel. One conference, game and conversation at a time...
I have always believed flexibility is key. You have to be capable of adapting to change because circumstances WILL change.
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